It is commonly believed that some people don’t give chance to their offspring who find their spouse for their lives whereas others recommend that their children should decide to choice partners by themselves. Both of these schools of thought could be true in their own right, but I agree with children choose near friends by themselves
People who don’t offer for children’s choice. They think,if they choose their partners, in the future will be disagreement between each other. Alas , these days, parents selecting pairs for their children and pitting them against each other is also causing conflicts among the children. As a result, the number of divorces is increasing. In addition as the divorce increase , young people are being left without their fathers and mothers . Sooner or later, they will continue as the same and their life nearly crash
Others, on the other hand, their children choose their own partners and by creating opportunities for them , the partners prepare them for the bigger life . The children, through the skills and trust given by parents, find their place in life and their partners. For example when I was a younger, I found my best friend by myself and we have always been together so far . The main reason we are so close is that we found each other without any obstacles from anyone
In conclusion, even though parents go against their children’s options, in the course of time , children divorce near friends. On the contrary, we should create more opportunities for them, as this will allow them to live happily