Some parents and educators tend to punish the children physically in order to raise them. I strongly disagree with this viewpoint, because this method of parenting and teaching can harm children’s life.
As far as family concerns, kids must have a sense of belonging, but parents’ wrong behaviors might cause generating a sense of abandon for kids. Children exposed to corporal punishment, usually think that they are not be loved and may feel disrespect. These can harm both their self-confidence and self-love, which will damage their social and future life. For instance, children who were punished during their childhood are mostly the ones who are not able to communicate. As a result of that, firstly, in their adulthood they cannot find an appropriate corporation due to lack of communication in a job interview with the employers which decline their career prospect. Secondly, they afraid of making connections which results in isolation in job environment and a depressing atmosphere.
In educational settings, children are not able to voice their opinion in class, which puts them at the risk of being labeled as lazy by teachers. In this occasion, after a while, student’s performance will reduce and will become an introverted person, which results in a ruined future. Additionally, children who were subjected to such punishments will become a parent with aggressive behaviors, finally, other generations inherent such a wrong attitude toward parenting, and this chain will last forever.
In conclusion, while some choose violent ways to treat their children, from my point of view, this method is just an overwhelmingly harmful way which damages their social skills in addition to their relationships with other individuals and their family.
