Nurturing children always requires many methods which has led to two opposing perspectives on whether educating children with publishment is the most effective way or it is better to treat them with compliments and reward. While I understand the reason why people advocate the former view, I also firmly stand by the latter.
On the one hand, applying treatment methods can shape children with discipline when they grow up. Firstly, children tend to be stubborn and do what they consider as right due to their lack of experience, so without strict punishment can lead to bad behavior like nasty or cheeky which brings many disadvantages for them when they grow up. As a result, publishment is an indispensable factor when nurturing a child to avoid these consequences. Secondly, this can contribute to helping children enhance their awareness about themselves and their manners to avoid being published.
On the one hand, rewards and compliments have their own impact on the lives of children. Not only are children stubborn, but they also tend to enjoy the sense of achievement, so whenever being given a reward or compliment they tend to have more support and motivation to complete themselves and act as a good child. In addition, this measure can bring more relaxation for children rather than stress as the publishment one, this will make children be conscious about the advantage of good things and can contribute to shaping their self-esteem and help them become better individuals.
In conclusion, while applying strict methods can help children become more aware and contribute to limiting their stubborn, the reward method can bring a sense of comfort and motivation for them which can help them to act well.
