In some society, children and teenagers are often think that they can achieve everything if they effort hard. This case has several advantages and disadvantages and I try to explore both perspective and at the end I offer my point of views.
On one side of the arguments, from the begging they should choose a suitable goal for their future, and the possible goal to achieve. If they think that, they can get everything that they want, it’s a wrong thought, they can try and study hard for better education and get a good job. Something like these things aren’t that impossible and not that easy but they are possible with hard working. The main things that helps children to achieving their goals is not giving up and just try, even if they didn’t any result in their hard working, its just a process. Although, its so valuable for children and teenagers trying for their dreams and goals, they want to make their future from their own selves, not reliance to their parents and do nothing for their life.
On the other side, some children are perfectionist and they can’t see something goas wrong or they don’t want to be minimum in something, they makes everything hard for them selves just to be perfect. Some of them are ego and they can’t get helps from their friends or their parents even if they needed help, no one can do everything perfect without any drawback, everyone needs helps. This difficulty is slowly tiring them out and force them to give up, they get tired of not being perfect and not seeing any results in their hard working.
In conclusion, it has a positive impact in their children to work hard for their life and their future but if they are too sensitive, it will have a negative effect in their life and their mental health. At first They should make a plan for their works and trust the process, learn that it takes a long time to achieving something big.