We have different belief according to different cultures. In some community they often pressurise to the thought that children can achieve everything they want if they work hard. This statement has both advantages and disadvantages of passing such messages to the child.
Some people believe that if their kids concentrate on some activities then as a result they will be succeed. Some children get more motivated from the parents supports and words. If parents told their son or daughter to work hard to achieve their goal in a positive way then they will surely obey and practice more and more and additional they will try everything to obtain certain things. In our country also we believe that if we practice hard then we will surely be capable of getting everything. When I was in grade eight I was very weak in my study and my parents were also worried about it however because of my parents supports I never lose hope and study day and night for my exam and as a result I secure 3rd position in class.
While talking about disadvantages, every children aren’t same at learning thing . Some get the knowledge in short period of time where as some need more explanation for it. If the parents pressurise the children to work hard to achieve then the mentality of children will be affected. Some get thought of feeling failure. They will mentally disturb. Compared to me and my friend, my thinking and understanding capacity is high. Her parents force her to work hard in study but instead of good studying she is going through mental issues.
In conclusion, such statement has both merits and demerits . Although we have to pass the suggestion in positive way so that the person got motivated instead of pressure of feeling failure.