It is often argued that parents should entitle children to make decisions or act independently. I truly agree with this point. Because children’s independence and personal development enable children to remain determined in pursuing their goals, express their opinions openly in any situation, and stand up for their rights.
Firstly, parents should encourage independence. If the child act independently, he can achieve anything his want and speak openly in any situation. For example, in central Asian countries have some problems in families or education, such as, girls study with parents wishes and choose their job with their parent’s wishes. Encourage a girl or boy who their parents want. And after marriage bride live with parents-in-law, because parents think the force to serve. But in European countries the exact opposite of this. They choose their study, job, life and couple. Also bride is not force to serve the parents in law. Because of this, in central Asia showed higher divorce proportion than European countries.
On the other hand, children lack of life experience. Young people may not fully understand the long-term consequences of their decisions. Also, parental supervision can prevent children from making dangerous choices. For instance, parents should children’s internet activities to protect them from online predators and inappropriate content.
In conclusion, independence have both positive and negative sides, but the outcomes more than drawbacks.
Actually, independence give more opportunity, but parents need give advice at the hard times.