Band 4+: Some parents give their children everything that their children ask for or allow them to do whatever they want to do. Is this good for children? What could be consequences for these children when they grow up?有些父母会给孩子们他们想要的一切，或者允许他们做任何他们想做的事。这对孩子们有好处吗？当他们长大后，会有什么后果？

in the contemporary world, this is no deny the fact that parents often is willing to be nice to their kids no limited. Personally, i completed disagree with this view.

With the development of living standard and income, parents can afford more things than before. Then they will give their chlidren what they want. For example, children would ask for beautiful toys in middle school and they also would a laptop and a smart phone in college. Their kids’ behavior can makes them more dependacy and lack of self-thinking. after college, they do not find a better job.

On the other hand, proponents of allow them to do whatever they want argue that it can beneificial to cultivate their independeence. but i believe that this method is more likely to have a harmful impact. This is partly because they have not ability to sovle problem and poor at polite. For example, a chlid, who have not a good habit. when he find a job, but he has not the ablilty of bulid relationship with his colleagues. he might felt lonely and depression.