Regarding childrens broughtup, parents have different mindset based on their personal or sorrounding experiences. Part of the people believe on controlling children behavior while other believe that children should be allow what they want, in my point of view we should follow an intermediate path to keep the children inside bouderies without affecting their problem solving skills. This assay will highlight both approaches and writer’s opinion on the subject matter.
As for as this topic is concerned parents opinion is devided and both the opnions have cons and prons. Parents and teachers wants their children and students to obey rules so that the children not get distract from their life main objectives. As the childrens are not mature enough to decide between good and bad and are not able to anticipate actions outcomes. In this scenario students should be kept under control and they should be remind of thier immature level and lack of prediction. For example, during our university life, if we were allowed to do what we want, we should definitly opted for things which are lustrous for time being and not good for us in long term and we would be deprived of parents guidence and master piece advices.
On the other side, parents believe that let the children do what they want and let them decide among good and bad. In the current developing world the children are allowed to select their future, field of studies, career and life partner. The students are given an open opputunity to select or reject according to their choices. This approach of parenting lead the students to excel in their life and they become more creative and target oriented.
In my opnion we should follow a middle way so that the children abilities neither get paralised nor exploited. There are some boundries which we have to draw for childrens at their immature age and we should allow the children to decide their own boundries in some walks of life.