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To be honest, if the only one item or thing that they borrowed is not important to me, I just think why they didn't return it to me, and I feel awkward to tell them to pick it up. But if it is something very important to me, like money or something of significant value, [...]
I feel betrayed in my trust because when they borrow something, they promise to return it. But they don't, so they are dishonest, and I do not want to be friends with people like that.
Honestly, it's frustrating. I understand that people can forget, but when someone keeps making accusations, it feels disrespectful. It's even worse when they act as if it never happened. That's why I'm more careful about who I lend things to now.
Well, I may feel quite disappointed when people don't return items I have lent them because I place a lot of trust in my friends. However, I wouldn't consider it a betrayal of trust if they forgot to return the items. In such situations, I would politely remind them that I am the rightful owner [...]
I feel many emotions, none of them are positive. When I lend something, I expect it to be returned because it's borrowed. However, some people tend to forget these borrowed items. It's uncomfortable to express our feelings about this.
Actually, it depends on what they borrowed from me. If it's something I don't care much about, I won't think about why they borrowed it and didn't return it. But if it's more crucial, like money or an object that has important value to me, I would be mad and I would ask them to [...]
So basically, it is the least of my concerns if the things they borrow are insignificant to me, as I never lend out expensive stuff to irresponsible people. I rarely experience this situation; however, there have been times when my close friend did not repay the promised amount of money on time. I just calmed [...]
Yo, so basically, it is a list of my concerns. If things they borrow are insignificant to me, as I never lend out expensive stuff to irresponsible people, I rarely experience these situations. However, there have been times when my close friend did not repay the promised amount of money on time. I just calmed [...]
Basically, I don't often lend my money to irresponsible people, so I usually don't think about it. But sometimes, in the past, I used to lend my money to my best friend, and he didn't pay me back on time. I think I just calmed down and waited.
I think that I feel terrible because they don't return it. When I lend them my things, I give them the obligation to return it safely and...
Definitely, I feel frustrated when people don't return the things they borrowed from me. For instance, last year, a friend borrowed an academic IELTS book from me, and they didn't return it. I was quite disappointed because I used the book to gain knowledge to prepare for my AO exam coming up.
I usually don't pay attention to that because during periods of time I try to manage myself and not think about why others don't return the things they borrowed from me. But a couple of years ago, maybe a decade ago, I was very nervous about that and I felt frustrated. Nowadays, I try not [...]