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I feel betrayed in my trust because when they borrow something, they promise to return it. But they don't, so they are dishonest, and I do not want to be friends with people like that.
Honestly, it's frustrating. I understand that people can forget, but when someone keeps making accusations, it feels disrespectful. It's even worse when they act as if it never happened. That's why I'm more careful about who I lend things to now.
Actually, it depends on what they borrowed from me. If it's something I don't care much about, I won't think about why they borrowed it and didn't return it. But if it's more crucial, like money or an object that has important value to me, I would be mad and I would ask them to [...]
So basically, it is the least of my concerns if the things they borrow are insignificant to me, as I never lend out expensive stuff to irresponsible people. I rarely experience this situation; however, there have been times when my close friend did not repay the promised amount of money on time. I just calmed [...]
I usually don't pay attention to that because during periods of time I try to manage myself and not think about why others don't return the things they borrowed from me. But a couple of years ago, maybe a decade ago, I was very nervous about that and I felt frustrated. Nowadays, I try not [...]