In some parts of the world, fathers and mothers put a lot of pressure on their kids to have the best grades at school, but the parents leaving time and experience with their children. In this easy we can see the advantages and disadvantages of this tipe of upbringing.
On the one hand, the parents want the best education for their childrens, they think the best grades is the result of higth education. The pressure of to do this could be succesfull for the score of their kids. In addition, that can be a some benefits in their university. Such us, Harvard, Stanford and Oxford (prestigous universities), only accept a students with perfect grades in their schools. Millions of students want enter of this universities but their score is not the better.
On the other hand, this pressure can be bad for the mental helth of their childrens. The parents change beautiful moments for good grades. As a result of kids with sociable problems, without friends or lack of self-esteem. Morover, the adults not notice of this problems but when their perceive is too late for that. For instance, in Japan a lot of students for own pressure or their parents pressure in school grades, they commit suicide or get hurt.
To sum up, the pressure in the school can be beneficial for some students yet for other it can be dangerous. The mental health is important and the moments with their childrens is important too. Some dads and moms not notice of this moments is really significant for their.