There are many perceptives related to decision making .Some people show willingness to allow children to make their own life decision ,which give children more confidence and he/she build a habit to choice everythings they want. For example, if we give permission to children to choice their own dress color,food that he like so much ,entertainment or sport options this give him not only self confidence but to do eveything in their life his own. When I was a child i am very happy when my parent accept my decision .I felt i am in air and more refresed.In my subject selection i want to join research subject in 5th grade but my parents not willing to do it but after i gave them research prons and cons they has been understand it and accept my decision.
In our society, people behave differently they are not accept child decision either in selecting cloths,food,van,lunch box and entertainment options ,they loose their self esteem and children become so depresed and unhappy all the time. They lose their focus in everything and not give any suggestions in future when they asked. when you consel child which decision is wrong or true thats ok but when we put our decision on their then they become insane and disobedient.They will not give your words attention .
In my opinion, its better to give cildren their own decision so in future when its time to do that they not become stuborn and confused. They make their decision their own which helps them to grow in life and become more confident. My parents believes on me this give me self esteem and i am not wander or confused i maked any decision.So decision making at the start of life is more crucial to boost confidence of child .