There are some individuals believe that children shouldn’t be made choices on their own due to the afraid of selfishnesses. But others think that creating more independent spaces could help children make decisions about their own lives. In my view, I think that it depends on the way of parents’ education.
On the one hand, Making own decision can help children form independent mindset at the very earliest age due to its abilities to determine what they need to do and enhace long-term vision. As a result, it decreases risks of wrong decisions. In this day and age, there are increasingly parents creating more opportunities for their children to make decisions by itself, making it easy to help children not only pracice the ability to give decisions in their lives, but also contributing in self-develoment of children in many aspects of lives
Howerver, there are also some mixed opinions that parents should be decisioner instead because of their thoughtfulness. The children is sometimes unable to make the decision sensibly. As a result the parents are the best individual who can help children do it and try to avoid a plenty of selfishness of their children. In some context, It’s difficult for parent to control their children avoiding unwisdom choice. So it’s impossible to give selection by children effectively
In conclusion, although children make decisions are a rational way to develope their independent mindset, we should understand that it’s hard to be sensible if it lacks of parental support.