Nowadays, spending time for family or friend more is the hottest topic nowday, whom are they spent time the most can decision the character when they grown up. In my opinion, children in this age should spend more time for friend when they are after school time.
On the one hand, spending most time with family can have many positive impact on children. the first benefit which their family impact on is :it can help strengthen bonds with the family members. For example: father and children can chatting togerther to understand each other better. His father can share the experience for their children, and their kids will told for parents when they have lesson or in shool. Opposite with that: the negative which the family bad effect in their child, kids are overprotected by their family. This is bad influence in theirself, children do not have lifeskills and know how to care themselves.
On the other hand, using time for friends can bring to kids a huge of benefits. The firstly is: they can learn about how to react when face to necessary sittuation when they need. For example: when kids spend more time for their friends, they have more skill and more confident than children which are not use time for friends. The second is: they can become a dependence person when they grow up. The kids will lost the independence skills and they are bad at control when meet the bad situation. For example: a kid are protect and overtake care by family, it is not as proactive as the another kid in the same fear.
In conclusion, although spending more time for family are not wrong, there is any free time for friend or another. I encourage children should have the flexible schedules and balance time with family and another like friend or more than
