Succeeding in life will surely make parents be happy about their children. But, many has shown that this have disadvantages and risk to their children. Making them more likely to feel stress and pressure from their parents. I believe there needs to be feedbacks from both sides.
Parents wants their children to be happy, and happiness are connected to having success life. It is fair that parents put efforts into pouring their time and resources into their children. Putting their children into a course, deciplining them, putting punishments for actions that are ethically not allowed are some of the efforts that I think most parents have done to their children.
While it does have its advantages, it also can create negative side affects to their children. Putting a lot of expectation will create pressure, stress, and anxiety that will probably put their own children into more danger than most parents have not expected. Children have a unique reactions to all of the pressure from their parents, and this can range into things that can be dangerous not just to them, but to the people around them.
In conclusion, I believe that there is a balance between the parents and children. Where I think communication is very much needed in this situation. Having inputs and feedback to each other will definitely create a better balance between the good and the bad of a parents’ wish of their children to be success. If it was executed well, I am sure that putting pressure with communication is method that everyone should use.
