Many people say controlling and looking after child behaviour or its attitude is the rightful duty of their parents, while others say children should be given freedom so they can learn how to live their life!. My perspective says, elders should start teaching behaviour to kids from infant age. In this essay, we will discuss both mindsets of parenting.
Firstly, there is no doubt a mother plays a major role in child growth so, it’s better that she should start restricting their child from good and bad habits. Secondly, a father plays the role of an idol, in every kid’s eyes his father is a superhero so, it’s the duty of the father to behave good, talk nicely, avoid bad habits etc in front of their children as they will adapt easily. Lastly, Parents should support their child in every trauma and condition as they are like a stem in child life.
Exploring the other side, there are some elders giving the argument that freedom to children will make them learn to tackle difficulties of daily life which is kinda true. Moreover, freedom gives them self confidence to learn new things and built a creative mindset. Hence, according to them, giving space to children creates a strong independent personality.
In conclusion, Parents should need to know things need to be balance, it’s important to keep an eye on child daily life and attitude but it is also important to give space to make them independent and idol personality.