Gift giving is an essential part of many cultures, but it can be challenging to select appropriate gifts for young people. While some believe that money is the best type of gift, it is clear that other gifts are more suitable since they can be more personal and encourage self-improvement.
Many people believe that money makes an excellent present. Proponents of this view may suggest that most children already have sufficient toys, so giving more does not benefit them. They also argue that spending or saving money teaches children important lessons related to the value of money. For example, if the young person chooses to spend the money, they learn the value of things that they wish to buy and what they can or cannot afford. It is claimed this could make them more financially mature and independent.
On the other hand, other types of gifts have significant advantages. An important reason for this is that money is quite an impersonal gift, which shows no understanding of the interests of the receiver. Giving a gift such as a football shirt from the child’s favourite club is more likely to be appreciated and strengthen the bond between giver and receiver as it demonstrates the giver knows what the child’s interest is. Furthermore, an educational gift such as a book or a useful gift such as a watch allows the young person to develop or improve their academic or practical skills and so is directly beneficial.
In conclusion, although many believe money may be popular and increase independence, it is clear that gifts showing an understanding of the young person or which are educational are more beneficial. For a gift to be worthwhile, the young person’s needs and interests must always be considered.