We human are very prone to arranging an environment according to our individual perspective which is more viable for our pleasure. However, such behavior can be a fundamental cause of a violence. Therefore, I want to agree with the idea of a child’s lifestyle following strict rules of behavior in order to significantly improve the chaos of the future generation.
There are several conflicts about the question how a toddler should be raised. In my opinion, a proper upbringing is the most essential part for any human being that actually decides the quality and personality a person would inherit. My mother always made me feel like nothing is going to be according to my will and that is the harsh reality I must accept and act accordingly. I have always chosen a path of morality which illustrates the difference between right and wrong. This is something you can only achieve when you have lived a life with rules and regulations.
To be more precise with the argument, we have to study the past behaviors that are analyzed by a group of researchers on Japan and USA. According to their paper which is recently published on Lancet, they demonstrated the behavioral differences between children with principles who are from Japan and arrogant children from USA who always want things as they wish to. They said the group from USA are more repulsive and have an adverse sense of humor to behave in a formal environment. On the other hand, the Japanese team who have been always in a boundary of rules, show a very humble and hospitable side which is normally unexpected compared to most of the normal children.
Moreover, the idea of letting children do whatever they want is not something I would ever appreciate. Rather, I suggest to keep a close eye to them from their childhood to adolescence. From my point of view, only an adult person should have the access to act independently.