Nowadays, people who involve in young age are received a lot of pressure from their families. To be that case, they want that their kids will have a successful work in their life because they think that the more pressure their children have, the more success they are. From my perspective, I think this is a negative impact to the younger and can affect to other aspects of their life.
Most parents tend to set their adolescences into oppression since they believe that children can improve themselves through those difficult situations they get. Suppose to families force their young members to attempt to pass the challenges from parents’ ambitions, they believe that their children can find the way to solve that problems and base on this memory to overtook other similar matters. And after each pressure they get from fathers or mothers, the youngers are believed to increase their ability to against peers. Moreover, it is possible for children to become more competitive with their friends, to develop gradually mindset. If children do not get highly competition with their friends, they will not be able to have a good self-control mind, and this leads to sedentary lifestyle. However, is it good if we apply too much competition to young members?
Children are received too much pressure from their parents may have some serious problems to their outcomes now and in the future. It is conceived that young-age people should obtain the care from their parents, and they must not have too many challenges in their childhood as they do not have any experiences about solving issues. Children can also have some mistakes from those, and they can fear that when they meet it again. Gradually, these factors make kids decline difficulty because of the feeling of scary. Furthermore, over-used brains of children can be damaged. In Vietnam, in every year, there was a lot of problems of students who went to hospital in the early age and vast majority of reasons were that were suffering from the highly pressure from families.
All in all, I agree that applying pressure to children may support them to improve themselves and create fundamental skills which is helpful to success. This may be a downward development to our social, especially young age children with the bad outcomes it bring to the younger generation.
