The hustle and bustle of life in large cities is making everyone neglect relationships around them. It can be clearly seen through communicating together, especially with neighbors when more and more people do not know who their neighbors.
In large cities, the immigrant from other areas accounts for a very large proportion.. People’s purpose when they go to big cities is to find better job opportunities and standard of living, therefore people often spend less time paying attention and making friends with people around them. That unintentionally limits your own development, due to residential communities like a miniature society where neighbors are members in that society. You can learn soft skills, communication skills, and knowledge from people around you. Sometimes, neighbors can become relatives, friends when you get stuck. Nowaday, many people tend to live alone and have less social interaction. There have been many scary cases happens such as: sick when live alone, suicidal in home but the citizens living around do not know. That is the result of lacking the care, support and share of neighbors. For that reason, attachment of people in the same space became difficult.
Cohesion of people in residential communities is very important, it only helps close distance with people. It can be to do that, people should change their own mindset, and should be more open minded with everything. A smile or a greeting when encountering neighbors is like a key so that everyone becomes closer. Besides, the impact of society is necessary. In places where people live, local leaders usually should organize group activities among citizens so that people get to know and communicate more with each other. For exam, organize activities on weekends for older people, build picnic plans for neighbor’s children or throw parties spend people on holidays
In conclusion, independence in relationships with people around us in modern society is inevitable, however there are many solutions to solve those problems.