Nowadays, especially in Asia, most people don’t want to have many children, and there are many reasons. However, Even I was born into a small family, and I don’t agree about this opinion.
Firstly, if someone has many children, it is really hard to take care every single childe, and do household affair at the same time. Which means parents are hard to manage their time as well, also have no time to pay attention for every children. Parental attention is very important for children, this affect to children’s development, and personality. Unless parents have enough time, and energy for pay attention to their family, it is not a good that they have large family.
Secondly, childe grown in large family means they will have many brothers and sisters. From my point of view, if children have many siblings, argue with them is inevitable because they need to share clothes, room, money, and even the parental attention. As a result, they will usually argue, but parents can not always monitor and resolve problems.
Lastly, attending to the first and second paragraphs, the biggist problem is parents situation. Genalally they need numerous incom and time for mange every family member as well. In my opinion, grown in large family is not always good even though if they have enough conditions to have a large family, it is dose not metter how many children they have. Unfortunatlly, most people do not have much time and money. This is the reason why children brought up in large family is not always better than small family.
Acctually, the point is not about the families are big or small, but the household have enough condition for children. If they can raise 2 children, 2 children are best for them. However, I have only one sister. I think for me and my family 2 children are best. So I prefer small family, but if we have better condition, it would be great to get more siblings.
